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Many women report feeling empowered after reading it—not to be mean, but to stop over-giving and under-receiving.
In short: the “bitch” is confident, self-sufficient, and unwilling to beg for love. The book argues that men are more likely to commit to a woman who doesn’t lose herself trying to please him.
: A "bitch" doesn't live by others' standards; she lives by her own.