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| Dimension | Japan Bapak | Indonesian Father Figure | |-----------|-------------|--------------------------| | | Extreme dedication to company; little family time. | Often works multiple jobs or long hours in informal sector; more family interaction but financial stress. | | Emotional expression | Reserved, stoic; love shown through provision. | More openly affectionate, though varies by ethnicity (e.g., Javanese subtlety vs. Batak directness). | | Authority style | High authority, rarely challenged. | Respected but often consultative; influenced by Islamic teachings (father as leader, but mother key in daily decisions). | | Social issues faced | Karōshi, suicide, empty nest syndrome, seken (retired husband syndrome). | Underemployment, domestic violence (KDRT), absenteeism due to migration (e.g., to Malaysia as laborers). | | Cultural ideal | Ryōsai kenbo (good wife, wise mother) for women; men as economic warriors. | Bapakism : Father as protector, provider, and religious role model (imam of the family). |

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